James Harmer

I’m really out of it right now… sitting in bed(wireless is nice), looking at the clock reading 12:26, sitting next to my Bible and guitar…  ok, a few guitars are within my field of vision currently.  Everybody is sleeping right now in the Harmer household… but not me, my mind is awake with thoughts about just about everything.  This happens often…  so, what better time to write an entry?

Well…  I’ll make it as short as I can, but you all know I’m not very good at that.  I have been thinking about relationships lately, dating, courting, whatever you call it…  I have been thinking about the reasons why we are told to wait, and be careful.  And believe me, I’m a big believer in waiting and being careful…  in fact, you could call me an active proponent of it, having seen and experienced the hurt and pain it can cause when you don’t.  But I think sometimes we aren’t given very good reasons to wait, and be careful… or rather, some very significant reasons to wait are neglected when Christians talk about relationships. Read more